The "What Will People Think?" TaxWhat Will People Think? 19 October 2026 · 3 min read · 420 reads
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The "What Will People Think?" Tax What Will People Think?
Fear of other people's opinion delays launches, pricing and posting. Here is how it costs you, and one reframe to try.
There is a phrase in Hindi and Urdu: log kya kahenge. It means "what will people say?" (Hindi and Urdu are two languages widely spoken in South Asia.) It sums up the fear of being judged for your choices.
The phrase comes
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from
South
Asia,
but
the
fear
is
not
local.
Many
places
have
their
own
version.
You
may
have
heard
it
as
"what
will
the
neighbours
think?"
or
"what
will
everyone
say?"
Wherever
you
live,
you
probably
know
the
feeling.
I want to talk about what it costs a business. I call it a tax, because you pay it every time you give in to it.
Where the tax shows up
Launches that never happen. The product is nearly ready. But what if it fails and people laugh? So you tweak it for another month. Then another.
Prices that stay too low. You think your work is worth more, but you worry people will say you are greedy. So you charge less, work harder and resent it.
Posts that stay in drafts. You wrote something useful. Then you imagined an old classmate or a cousin reading it and rolling their eyes. It sits unsent.
Stuck in the safe choice. You follow the usual path because no one can criticise it, even when you know a different one fits you better.
None of these look like big losses on their own. Together, they add up to months of delay and money not earned.
Why the fear is strong
Most of us care what others think of us. Being accepted by a group has long mattered to people, so a frown from a neighbour can feel bigger than it is.
I should be careful. I am not a psychologist, and this is a plain-words explanation, not a scientific one. The point is that the fear is normal. You do not need to be ashamed of it. You only need to stop letting it decide.
A reframe to try
Here is a question that helps me think about this: who exactly is "people"?
When you say "what will people think?", name them. Is it your uncle? A former boss? A stranger online? Often the group is two or three specific people, and you are letting them speak for everyone.
Then ask two more questions:
- Will these people pay my bills or buy my work?
- In a year, will I remember what they said?
If the answer to both is no, their opinion may be worth listening to politely, but not worth obeying.
Fear of judgement
WorryWhat will they say?
DelayWait, tweak, hide
Lost chancesSales and time
More worryThe fear grows
Why it feels so real
The people we worry about are usually close to us, so their opinion feels heavy. But a founder who waits for everyone to approve will wait a long time. Someone, somewhere, will always have something to say about what you do.
One small experiment
Pick the thing you have been delaying. Make it smaller, so the cost of being wrong is low.
- Post one short thing you would normally hold back.
- Quote the higher price to your next new customer.
- Show an early version to three people instead of waiting for it to be perfect.
Then watch what happens. Usually it is less dramatic than you feared. Some people do not notice. A few may say something kind. Fewer still will say something unkind, and you can survive that.
What I take from this
Fear of judgement is real, and it is expensive. I do not think the answer is to stop caring about anyone. It is to pick whose opinion counts, and to test the fear with a small step before it decides for me.
Try this week: Write down one thing you are holding back because of what others might think. Name who you imagine judging. Take the smallest possible step on it.
Sources
- "Log Kya Kahenge" (Wikipedia), for the meaning of the phrase. The rest of this piece is general reflection, not research findings.
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